Buying your first home should be a wonderful experience. It’s such an important milestone in a person’s life that it just seems like everything should go smoothly. Unfortunately, that is not how it always happens. There are several things you should do in order to prepare for the ups and downs of buying your first home.
Knowing where to draw the line between a necessity and a desire is a very important key to enjoying the home buying process. You must understand the things you want, aren’t necessarily the things you need. Emotions can often times muddy the lines between the two, which can cause problems in the long run.
If you have a large dog, you probably need an outdoor space for it to romp around in. This is a necessity to you and the family, as well as the dog. You might also love to have granite slab counter tops in the kitchen, but the home with the large yard only has tile. The granite is calling to you because it looks so wonderful. In all reality, the counter tops don’t matter, they can be changed but the size of the yard can’t.
Once you have the necessities squared away, it’s time to get the budget in line. Getting prequalified for a loan will help you determine your maximum spending limit and prevent you from looking at homes which are over your budget. No need to waste time on houses you can’t afford.
Once you get a definite maximum spending limit, sit down and add up the numbers. While the bank may tell you that you can financially afford a certain price point, individual lifestyle may tell you otherwise. Do you want to pass up going out to nice dinners, vacations or buying designer clothes, or could you probably live in a less expensive property and have it all?
It might be a blow to the ego to have to spend even less than you can actually afford. But it will be so much nicer having extra cash on hand to pay for improvements and new paint or flowers. No sense giving up those fun nights out with friends or delicious dinners either.
Finding a house you love and enjoy is such a great feeling for everyone. Buying your first home is not just something that makes you feel good, it is an important milestone, big accomplishment and tremendous responsibility. Enjoy the process and keep a positive outlook, just because an offer was turned down, does not mean the next one will be.